Regardless whether it be a marriage, dating relationship or overturning a lifelong friendship, It hurts. Recoverable? Sometimes, but it takes work and attitude. It’s never easy when a marriage or significant relationship ends. Whatever the reason for the split—and whether you wanted it or not—the breakup of a relationship can turn your whole world upside down and trigger all sorts of painful and unsettling feelings. But there are plenty of things you can do to get through this difficult time and move on. You can even learn from the experience and grow into a stronger, wiser person. At "Veterans Connections to a New Life" our agents are finely tuned and trained in equipping you with the tools to move on.
Why does any breakup hurt so much, even when the relationship is no longer good? A divorce or breakup is painful because it represents the loss, not just of the relationship, but also of shared dreams and commitments. Romantic relationships begin on a high note of excitement and hope for the future. When these relationships fail, we experience profound disappointment, stress, and grief.
A breakup of a once great friendship also launches us into a place where everything is disrupted: your routine and responsibilities, your home, your relationships with extended family and friends, and even your identity. A breakup brings uncertainty about the future. What will life be like without your partner or friend? Will you find someone else? Will you end up alone? These unknowns often seem worse than being in an unhappy relationship.
Healing takes time, so be patient with yourself, and let our agents at "Veterans Connections to a New Life" awaken you to your inner strengths. More of this in our book which may be ordered on this website.
"One of the happiest moments you will ever have is when you find the courage to let the one go who you can’t change and the acceptance of another who comes into your life to teach you how."..... Rule#123 mystandardtumblr.com